Billy Pilgrim had a theory about diaries. Women were more likely than men to think that their lives had sufficient meaning to require recording on a daily basis. It was not for the most part a God-is-leading-me-on-a-wondrous-journey kind of meaning, but more an I've-gotta-be-me-but-nobody-cares sentimentalism that passed for meaning, and they usually stopped keeping a diary by the time they hit thirty, because by then they didn't want to ponder the meaning of life anymore because it scared the crap out of them. Dean Koontz
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William Styron's "Billy Pilgrim" is a fictional character in his novel, "The Confessions of Nat Turner." Billy Pilgrim struggles with the definition of life and how it continues on after death. He believes that women are more likely to keep a diary because they are more sentimental. On the other hand, men will probably not record their emotions because men want to be tough and not show people how they truly feel about things.

Source: The Darkest Evening Of The Year

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